Now that we’ve got our new site up, YuSchool in the hopper, and branding on point – I couldn’t be more excited to get back into your inbox and provide you with new content that moves you.

And I mean, truly gets you GOING.

What I mean by this, is that I want to help you shift your limiting beliefs (and sabotaging behaviour – we all have a little of that too!) so that you can finally start being you, with confidence.

You were made to shine, now the question is – Are you ready?

Before we can begin, you’re going to have to let go of something very important to you. It’s something you’ve been holding close to and it needs to change.

Tonia on a boat in Thailand
Tonia on a boat in Thailand.

It’s the story you’re telling yourself about you and your past. It includes the belief you have in yourself, and it’s likely holding you back.

I sit here now, on a 7 hour flight to Europe, and I just deleted 3,246 photos from my iphone.

Seriously – and don’t worry, I kept lots too 🙂

In this process, I realized that my past is over. Done. Caput. Or as the Italians say, finito.

Don’t get me wrong, my past has served me well; it’s a HUGE part of who I am; but it’s not, who I will become.

In order for you to be curious, and to open yourself to new opportunities, encounters and experiences, you have to let go of EVERYTHING that’s no longer serving you – including the 1,000’s of bad, unfocused, blurry photos on your iphone!

Now, here’s 3 tips to help you be more curious and attract what you want:
  1. Reconsider assumptions. What are you telling yourself that isn’t absolutely true about a particular situation that you’re in? For example, “my boss doesn’t appreciate me”, “I’m not smart enough to start my own passion project,” or “the person I like, is out of my league.”
  2. Choose enabling contexts. How you choose to view your situation (or challenge) will directly impact its outcome in your life. For example, “I was laid off because I have bad luck” or “I now have the opportunity to focus on my dream job/career.” You can choose empowering or disabling contexts, the choice is yours.
  3. Go for it! Now’s the time. You’ll never be fully ready. Nobody ever is. Just start taking one step toward the life you want, and I promise, you’ll start to attract it.

Alright! Now it’s time to hear from you. Share your comments below on how this worked out for you. I’d love to hear!

It’s been so much fun exploring the element of Curiosity with you (3 of 5 elements of YUOLOGY), and as I embark on my trip to Europe, I’m certainly going to lead with an open, curious mind – and heart! Stay tuned.

I still have a few hours left on my flight, and I’m now going to chill out, have a glass of white, and think about all the beauty to manifest on my upcoming adventure!

With so much love,

Tonia xx