What Needs to Die Before You Can Move On?

Hey YuBoss,

Happy Halloween! Hope you had some spooky moments and spontaneous fun.

This year I had a quiet one, with family in town and work on my plate. But last year, well, that was a night to remember.  

I went to a deadly ball, surrounded by beautiful vampires dressed in gowns and tuxedos. Our faces were powdered white, our eyes shaded black, and we had juicy blood streaming from our lips and necks.

While I spent the night mingling with the creepy crowd, that resembled death, something quite shocking hit me.

I realized that death can actually be one of the best things that can happen to us. Morbid I know, but consider this…

Think about everything that you have ever started in your life. EVERY. SINGLE. THING.

Tonia at Vampire Ball
Tonia at Vampire Ball

This could be taking on a new job, starting a class, dating someone new, becoming a mom, moving to a new city etc.

What’s one thing all these transitions have in common?

A part of you had to die before the new part could begin. You had to stop one role in order to create space for the new version of you to blossom.

Rebirthing into a new YOU, and bringing all the experience and knowledge that you have gained into the next stage of your life.


This is the beauty of death to different parts of yourself – you can grow into something even more magnificent!  tweet this!

You now have the opportunity to redefine who you are, choose with intention, and be authentic to the person you’re growing to be.

With this learning in mind, you can be easy on yourself when something comes to an end.

Breath it in, accept the change, and know that something new (even better than what you’re losing now) is being divinely created for you.

Now it’s your turn: what’s an example from your life where a part of you had to die before a new part could begin? Share in the comment below, I’d love to hear.

If the topic of death and rebirth relates to someone you know, share this article with them – it just may be what they need to hear, to move on. Click the social media links to share the love 🙂

Success starts the moment you choose to be you, YuBoss!

With love,

Tonia xx

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