Why You Need To Stop + Let Go

One of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn, goes something like this…

Let go. Release and surrender. Leave room for serendipity to happen.

It took me a while to truly grasp this.

Especially, being someone who works hard for what I want, who pushes barriers, breaks boundaries and has a tenacious energy that gets sh*t done.

The truth is, I had 144 meetings in NYC, before I landed my dream job; and that type of effort is not for a nonchalant person, who expects things to simply happen for them.

I’m not a dreamer who doesn’t take action, and I’m definitely not someone who’s comfortable with the expected, or is waiting on the path to see where it may lead me.

Tonia and Kiana (YuSchool student)

Do not go where the path may lead you, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. Raph Waldo Emerson

I’ve travelled to 30+ countries, lived in 3, started businesses, failed miserably, succeeded wondrously, and I learn something new pretty much every single day.

And one thing that holds true in ALL of this, is not to push anything from a place of scarcity or need — and instead, come from a place of belief and trust.

Don’t get me wrong, you must put in the work and take massive action (just like ALL those meetings in NYC ??), but there comes a time in every journey where you have to let go and leave room for some magic to happen ✨.

Do what you can — and then trust — that what’s meant to be, WILL happen.

The universe is working FOR you and it always has your best interest in mind ?.

Now, I’m curious, what’s ONE thing you’re ready to let go of, so you can leave room for some new magic to happen?

Leave a comment below and let me know.

Know someone who could benefit from letting go of something that’s not serving them? Share this post.

If you’d like to discuss how YuSchool can help YOU change your life (like Kiana just did, who’s featured in the photo above)  book a free 30 minute breakthrough session with me — I’d love to have a chat with you.

Thank you for being here and choosing to be you, with confidence.

With love and support,



P.S. I’ve blocked out some time over the next few days for free breakthrough calls. So if you’ve been dying to finally make a change in your life, now’s the time to talk. 

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