Get Clear On How You Want People To Feel AFTER They Meet You

I get asked for directions a lot.

Even in countries where I don’t speak the language.

This past month, traveling between France and Spain, I was stopped countless times, by people asking for landmarks, places to go, shop, dine.. and even for my photo or to say hello when they thought I was Salma Hayek (but that’s another story!). 

It actually happens a lot, by different people who truly believe I’m her ??‍♀️.. I don’t really see it; yet I feel super honoured every time it happens. 

I used to wonder why people approach me, ask me so many questions, and open up to me so deeply, so fast — until I talked about it with a friend in Barcelona.

He said to me, “you offer a sense of calm + peace to people, and they are attracted to this feeling.” 

I think this was the most impactful compliment I’ve ever had, as it’s who I’ve always aspired to be. 

Which is, to leave people feeling a little bit better, after we’ve had an encounter together

And this goes for everything —  even at the grocery store with cashiers, I pretty much love to connect. But it’s not something I’ve ever thought about doing, it’s just how I authentically feel spiritually aligned. 

This is also WHY I do the work that I do with YUOLOGY, the study of you. 

It’s my authentic purpose, and I feel absolutely grateful to be who I am everyday, and to make even a small impact in the lives of people that I get to meet along the way in life. 

Have you ever thought about the feeling you want to leave with people?

It’s a pretty powerful question, as it’s said to be the main thing people remember about you.

It’s not how much education you have, money in the bank, or car you drive — it’s the FEELING they have after they meet you. 

Now it’s your turn to decide — what kind of impact do you want to make when you meet someone?

This is also a question you discover in YUOLOGY, YuSchool and I’m curious what your answer would be. 

Leave a comment below and let me know.

If you know someone who could benefit from getting to know what kind of impact they want to make, share this post.

Thank you for being here and choosing to be you, with confidence.

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With love and support,



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