Meet Lola ❤️. 

This shot is from an art project that I took part in a while ago.

We had to come up with 3 alter egos for ourselves. 

These are different parts of our essence that we don’t often get to express, but that are always there. 

You can think of it like your inner magnificence that you secretly would love to uncover, but for one reason or another, you feel like you have to contain.

Your reasoning may vary from living your life based on other people’s expectations, getting stuck in impostor syndrome, or lacking confidence in yourself to name a few. 

So we end up being who others want us to be or we lose ourselves in the roles we take on and never become who we were authentically meant to be. 

Which is literally the worst tragedy ever. 

It’s like dying with your music still in you.

That’s why I was so honoured to take part in this soul awakening project and it’s also exactly what I help modern women discover for themselves in the work that I do. 

I also loved to connect to my inner persona Lola ?. She’s bold, fierce, confident and is who she is, unapologetically. 

And after defining all three of my alter egos, I felt a sense of comfort, knowing that these “women” live within me, and that I had access to their power.

Your alter egos are different parts of who you are, and as you evolve, you’ll have different opportunities to let them out. 

Now, can you imagine how much power YOU have within yourself, that you haven’t even tapped into — yet?!

If you’re not sure, I’ll confirm. 

The answer is, A LOT!

Invent yourself and then reinvent yourself. Change your tone and shape so often that they can never categorize you. – Charles Bukowski

If you were to try this out, who would your alter ego be?

Give her a name. What does she like to do? How does she dress? What are her personality traits? What’s your favourite things about her?  

Once you’ve tried this out, I’d love to meet her!

Leave a comment below and introduce your alter ego.

If you know someone who could benefit from  uncovering her inner magnificence, share this post.

Thank you for being here and choosing to be you, with confidence.

With love and support,

XO,

Tonia