3 Ways To Start Manifesting What You Want

There’s lots of talk about manifestation these days. 

Especially at the start of a new year — while we’re supposed to be intention setting and designing our dream lives.

And if you’re anything like I used to be, you may be starting to question whether this stuff really works.

I promise you it does, but​​ what nobody is talking about, is that if you don’t first become what you want, it’s not going to just happen.

At least not to the level that it could. Because that’s simply how energy works.

Just like the Law of ‘Cause and Effect’…

What goes up, must come down; and therefore, what we radiate, we attract back to us.


Last week (in the middle of covid and while wearing a mask 😷) I had to hit the town and make some new connections for a project that I was doing in just a few days, that I needed help with.

With that, anyone I told of my situation, advised me to reschedule and I kept hearing things like, “you’re never going to figure this out Tonia.”

As you probably guessed, I figured it out .

I simply set out with clear intention and belief in myself, showed up authentically (and with full out high vibes 🤩) and was pleasantly met with equal energy.

I made some new friends / connections too — even in the middle of the variant. If anyone can, I can. At a distance of course. 😄↔😄

What I want you to know is that all of this happened because of one thing:

Becoming what you want, instead of expecting to attract it.

Try these 3 easy steps to start being the energy that you want to attract:

  1. Radiate Light. You attract what you put out. So be mindful of how much love (or fear) you are dispensing out of you. This counts with EVERY interaction you make. How are you greeting people you meet? Interacting with your friends/loved ones? Speaking with your clients and colleagues?
  2. Know What You Want. You can’t attract what you don’t know. This is where intention comes in. You must have clarity in what you want, so you’ll know when it arrives. You don’t have to know every single detail, but be clear on what you want, and claim your desires.
  3. Attract Serendipity. Once you’re exuding love and light, you have clarity in what you want, the natural reaction is to start attracting it. You’ll notice that what you talk and think about will start to come into your life and then it’s your choice on whether you let it in.

Then you can release and surrender to the magic that’s waiting to arrive into your life.

If you were to try this out for yourself, what’s the FIRST thing you would start?

Leave a comment below and let me know.

If you know someone who could use a shift in perspective, share this post.

Thank you for being here and choosing to be you, with confidence.

With love and support,

Tonia xo

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